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frbnkslady 55F
1850 posts
12/16/2005 3:57 pm

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i wrote a blog a bit ago about love. How I felt and why. I have received my answer in a round about way. I took this from his blog, not a AF F blog. I will hear about from him but..... until then....He will always hold a special place in my heart no matter where he ends up in life or with whom. And I hope the woman who he chooses realizes what she has in him.

"Of course all my other issues that I seem to be avoiding (the real world ones) need to be addressed soon. My outlook on life has changed over the last year and what I thought was important is no longer as important and things that I felt were just there are more important than ever. Of course they are relationships and friendships. I value both yet the line between seems so blured. So many factors warp both that it is hard to tell the two apart. Yes you can have both but can they be seperate? Can men just have friendships with females? That is a serious question. It seems that if you are a friend to a woman she expects a relationship. I am not just talking about friends with extra on the side. Can you just be a friend with a woman without her expecting more? What if you truly love a woman but know that she can't fit into your life? Is it possible to love a woman yet know that she isn't the one? Of course this goes much deeper into all different streams of thoughts but that is the surface value. I know that it is weird to think of things like that but I have had a lot of time to think and really need to rethink how I approach friendships and relationships. to me most friendships are relationships. Relationships isn't always the sexual ones everyone talks about."

I wrote to him and told him he knew I know it is possible. I would much rather him as a friend in my life then not at all. He is a very special man. CSC, I love you... T

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frbnkslady 55F
6179 posts
12/21/2005 11:42 am

Yes, I just hope he sees it as a line and not a wall. T

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frbnkslady 55F
6179 posts
12/19/2005 10:07 pm

Yes it is.. and I have crossed the line... he now has to decide if he can accpet my friendship or not...
It is nice to hear from you again.. hope all has been well. T

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bullit6690 61M
178 posts
12/19/2005 9:56 pm

That is a tough one,letting someone go that you really yearn to be with for eternity. Relationships not always have to be sexual, friendships can exist between man and woman. Its what devides the relationship from friendship that is the real true answer. What are both sides willing to give up to accept each other as friends.I have a few woman friends that I would want more but the fine line was drawn when the friendship was developed.Sometimes it is hard , harder than hell but we have to draw the line. This is a tough choice either way.


frbnkslady 55F
6179 posts
12/17/2005 1:07 pm

Dev, this is what I am hoping for.... He means a lot to me.. and would much rather have him as a friend then not at all. T

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1devlin11 55M
893 posts
12/17/2005 12:53 pm

You can love someone and know they aren't the one. You can care and worry and laugh and hope they do well, but still know you aren't the right one for them.
If you can keep in their lives, and they in yours without causing pain, it can be a very amazing thing.


frbnkslady 55F
6179 posts
12/17/2005 1:47 am

I know you learn something from each of your relationships. Might not be what you like or expect... but it does go with you... T

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frbnkslady 55F
6179 posts
12/17/2005 1:46 am

Thank you Thorval... T

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tmdt4u 68M

12/16/2005 6:30 pm

the knowledge that is learned in the development of relationships is mind boggling .After much thought and study for ears I keep hostiges they were not relationships an old friend once asked me A could I recognize a healthy relationship if it passed me by. B Could i servive in it.

Today i have improved on B and inturn aA is better.Good Luck God Speed and season greetings


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