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Hawkfan533333 34 M
8  questions
For women - 1/31/2020

It seems like all men are pretty much game for meaningless sex with most any woman will have them if there is a physical attraction. Women can mssg a guy wana come over and fuck, and the awnser is more times then not going to be yes. So why are most women(not all) the complete opposite. Most women wldnt even respond to a mssg like that. Why is this? Why are we so different when it comes to ...

31 response(s), 16 votes
Tallandhansome30 56 M
1  question
Real or Ghost Partner? - 1/31/2020

Have seen several profiles. Where you see a single picture of person. But they say their partner want have with others. But there is no picture of so said partner or description of them. All which makes ask are THEY REAL??

17 response(s), 9 votes
Sudden2020 74 M
5  questions
What happened to the IM Incoming/Busy icon????? - 1/31/2020

Just noticed that the IM Incoming/Busy icon is missing. Now there is no way to tell when someone wants to chat.

25 response(s), 18 votes
newtime001 44 M
1  question
Question - 1/31/2020

After being on this site men outnumbered the women significantly. Begs to question if women have the same urges as men or if they have better control over their urges.

17 response(s), 11 votes
niaff17 28 M
1  question
Isn't what you have to go through.. - 1/31/2020

..just a bit ridiculous to get some bloody ! I think I'll probably give up on this site soon tbh, which is a shame

21 response(s), 11 votes
Being a Sub - 1/30/2020

Is it a requirement that a sub must agree submit any and all those want her. Is there any reason she can't choose whom submit without "losing" her sub status? Or does the very choice of picking her disqualify her from being a sub?

15 response(s), 13 votes
tdw720 63 M
1  question
Has anyone ever used a Money order to purchase a membership - 1/30/2020

Hello AdultFriendFinder members! I used to be a gold member & had a blast doing so. When the economy took a nose dive I had to cut some expenses & switch to a standard membership. Now things are starting to look better now I want to go back to GOLD. I do not want to use a credit card & they have a money order alternative that i would like to try. Have any of you used this method of payment ? were ...

16 response(s), 14 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 66 C
46  questions
A poor business venture - 1/30/2020

Every site has good and bad . What my discussion is, do sites like this really want you to succeed? <br><br> If you meet someone from here, they stand to lose two active members. Most likely two paying members. <br><br> So what do you think? Are "dating" sites really set up for ease of meeting?

28 response(s), 25 votes
threesome of one man with two women - 1/29/2020

is it a better experience for the man if the two women are solely heterosexual or if the two women are girl friendly? In short, does it matter or does the guy benefit from being the sole focus of attention of the two women have no sex with each other

23 response(s), 13 votes
threesome of one man with two women - 1/29/2020

is it a better experience for the man if the two women are solely heterosexual or if the two women are girl friendly? In short, does it matter or does the guy benefit from being the sole focus of attention of the two women have no sex with each other

6 response(s), 5 votes
threesome of one man with two women - 1/29/2020

is it a better experience for the man if the two women are solely heterosexual or if the two women are girl friendly? In short, does it matter or does the guy benefit from being the sole focus of attention of the two women have no sex with each other

1 response(s), 1 vote
HungUSMCvet 41 M
2  questions
To stay or go? - 1/29/2020

Would you stay with someone because of the sex? If you have, how did it end?

24 response(s), 17 votes
FFU22018 57 F
19  questions
Getting It Straight - 1/29/2020

Is it okay for women to have a preference for men who exclusively have sex with women, or should she have to HAVE sex with men also engage in sex acts with other men? Is it okay for a man to portray himself as exclusively interested in women, when he, in fact, engages in sex with men? If a man portrays himself as having sex with women, but in fact engages in sex acts with other men, is he as ...

34 response(s), 31 votes
tiredkitty 42 F
2  questions
85,000 points - 1/29/2020

I'm like 100 points away from 85k in points what would you spend them on. my husband thinks i should try most expensive toy. i could also buy 2 years of free member ship or months and months of private , not that i enjoy chatting with many people. <br><br> <br><br> well thanks and i forward hear from you. <br><br> <br><br> ...

33 response(s), 35 votes
Bopper833 36 M
1  question
How many guys out there have had a threesome - 1/29/2020

Two guys one girl wierd?

42 response(s), 23 votes
robdessertrider2 67 M
5  questions
Do you think a man who likes anal is gay? - 1/29/2020

I am a Bi sexual man, I tend to lean gay, men are just more willing to treat sex as sex, just an act performed for the outcome, not solely attached to LOVE. As for anal play I first experienced it when I found my mothers battery operated rocket. I knew sex was about a man's penis penetrating a woman's vagina. Butt I had only one hole down there, I was hooked instantly. I wore down those ...

22 response(s), 17 votes
Why are women strange in chat? - 1/29/2020

I see women acting strange in chat... whats up with that. I have pics and info I am willing to share but some wont even take a chance and respond. I dont want to waste a good day playing games. Lets go out grab drinks and have fun!

0 response(s), 0 votes
What sites do you like that are like this? - 1/29/2020

I have not tried app and was not happy with dating sites being many games... so what sites like this do you like?

6 response(s), 1 vote
tightsmoothfuck 30 M
11  questions
For All Those Fitness Buffs - 1/29/2020

What's are your favourite things put in your power smoothie after a workout? Looking switch mine up a bit.

11 response(s), 9 votes
Has anyone on here had something long term - 1/28/2020

Have you had long term on here or more play dates?

0 response(s), 0 votes
how is a magazine differnt than blog? - 1/28/2020

I see they have groups, magazines and blogs but it all seems to be the same thing.

29 response(s), 32 votes
AtxSexyChubb 39 M
3  questions
Is he Straight or Gay? - 1/27/2020

I am a gay and a couple of times have watched straight porn with my straight friend. The 1st time we were drunk and I gave him head while he watched straight porn. He didn't get hard all the way and we blamed it on whiskey dick. He did leak his precum all over my face and shirt though. The 2nd time we weren't as drunk and I didn't touch him but he didn't seem to get hard and we ...

52 response(s), 33 votes
For the straight men. - 1/27/2020

question is do men enjoy watching a woman give head? I am straight and not bi but I enjoy watching it in porn and in person. Lets hear your opinions.

27 response(s), 40 votes
if u suck dick, how far can u go? - 1/27/2020

I had someone get it all once.. but it seriously ended up in their stomach and it didn't feel quite right. How far can you suck a big dick?

23 response(s), 29 votes
SexyPerth49 75 M
3  questions
For female subs - 1/27/2020

What are your expectations re financial arrangements if you live with a Dom / Master? Is it usual for a sub to work for employment? <br><br> Thanks

17 response(s), 15 votes
SexyPerth49 75 M
3  questions
Question for experienced male doms - 1/27/2020

What are the usual financial arrangements for a live in salve / domestic servant? <br><br> Thanks

18 response(s), 18 votes
SexyPerth49 75 M
3  questions
Question for experienced male doms - 1/27/2020

Has anyone ever brought a female from another country, and if so what were the financial arrangements? <br><br> Thanks

0 response(s), 2 votes
Squirt_Professor 70 C
3  questions
Counterpart word to Slut - 1/26/2020

Is there a counterpart word as degrading to the as the word slut is to women?

44 response(s), 49 votes
DaveK3333 48 M
2  questions
Anyone have any luck hooking up here? - 1/26/2020

Would love to hear stories and examples from people hooking up from here.

41 response(s), 21 votes
DaveK3333 48 M
2  questions
Anyone have any luck hooking up here? - 1/26/2020

Would love to hear stories and examples from people hooking up from here.

4 response(s), 1 vote