Just a average guy looking for someone who knows what the word monogamy means.....Lately that has eluded me...Maybe Im just a old fashioned guy who is looking for depth not just a shiny finish...Im decent looking so I have been told who at times has been accused of being to serious...but Im really not...I can be kinda goofy and light hearted at times....Im just tired of kissing frogs until Prince Charming comes along...It takes me awhile to make the commitment but once I make that committment it takes a crowbar to get me out....My friends say I am too loyal almost to the point of being taken as "naive"....While I tend to take work seriously I do know when to be not so serious....I guess what it comes down to is that I have been burned before and reluctant to get burned again..but willing to give it another shot for a guy who has the patience, caring and understanding to make a leap together.....Not really a one nite type of guy...never really have been (but no angel by any means though)...Just at a time where I want more than a quick roll in the sack.... I long for the day again when I can wake up in the middle of the night in someones arms and just look at him sleeping and feel utterly complete again....When I fall in love...I fall hard and treat that per extremely well..almost to the point of spoiling him...but within limits...I know love is hard but it doesnt and shouldnt hurt all the time either...

My Ideal Person My ideal guy first off would be free of felonies...LOL.....I know no one is perfect and everyone has and will make mistakes...What matters to me more then the mistake is that you learn from them......Personality means more to me than looks but lets not fool each other either...the attraction has to be there....
I dont deal well with liars, cheaters or thieves either...I want a man who wants to be in a relationship...Not one who needs to be in one....
I have to have someone in my life who doesnt always take things seriously either...there is a time and place of it but it doesnt have to be a permanant state either...Know how to loosen up and be yourself and enjoy life..after all you only have one of those and cant buy any more...
One requirement I have is absolutely no drugs...been down that road before and will not travel it again....
I know all these traits will be difficult to find in a person but I remain optimistic that Mr Right is out there somewhere and Im willing to wait...Im a sucker for blondes, blue eyes and relatively hairy types of guys...but we all have our ideals and should not discourage any one else from applying..LOL...

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I dont per se have one.....but having been alive for this
long have experienced quite a few that some would consider
fantasies...to me..being in the moment with the person
your with constitutes it for me...I know that sounds like
a cop out answer but its true

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
We all have our little secrets dont we? LOL....I used to
go nuts over a younger Matthew McConahey when I was younger....dude
was hot....back then

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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