This is where my true story used to be - the story about how one of transdate members falsely accused me of serious sexual assault. If convicted I would have spent long years in prison - up to 9 years. I I learned about his allegation at the police station and was in a state of a shock for many days. I couldn't stop picturing myself locked in segregation in a single occupancy cell, locked there for 22 or 23 hours a day, staying there without any social interaction for long years. I faced loosing my job, being barred from doing the job which I am doing at present, also not being able to work in my learned profession because both require enhanced disclosure with barring. I realised how difficult it would be to find any job at all after release from prison - who would employ a man staying indefinitely on a sex offenders register? I have done nothing wrong to deserve that - I had his consent for all the sexual activities we did. He felt he was dumped and then he chose to take revenge. My true account of what happened during that date had to be taken down - so I was told by the police - even those who make false sexual assault accusations have more rights in this country than those wrongly accused. Even the decent, honest men and women on dating sites have no right to know the identities of members who make false sexual allegations. Now I can't even mention his username. I had to change my preferences as well - I no more want to meet transguys - some of them due to their personal traumas behave like psychos, have very low self-esteem and are easily hurt by what they perceive as rejection. The most dangerous are transguys (also known as ftm-s) with vaginas - you guys must know that they feel very uncomfortable about their bodies. On one hand driven by their sexual urges towards men they want their pussies to be licked and penetrated, on the other hand they feel not manly enough if you do it to them. Add some disappointment which they might feel after a date with you and you have a recipe for a disaster. They want your load in them, they promise you loads of fun but what you actually get is a ticket to a horror movie. It was a one night stand - I was in no kind of obligation to be faithful to him - I could meet other people, but he saw this as betrayal and took steps to destroy my life. However the police couldn't find the sufficient evidence that the crime took place. Guys be careful who you meet - try to get the evidence that what you are doing with a stranger has been agreed upon, You lick and load the gun, you lick and load the gun You hope you'll have fun, but the only fun you get from making this pussy wet is finding on the net a bunch of scalding nettles sweet water in the kettle, that's how all this shit is dealt Your skin and eyelids melt You'll see the world no more The fear that shakes you to the core. Now some things about me, however I'm not sure if I want a profile on here any more - I just don't want to meet somebody like that psycho again. I am middle aged post-op trans guy, People say I look ten years younger - testosterone seems to do a good job for me. Reaable fit and slim. Interested in history, politics, music. I like travelling, hiking and cycling, into many other sports. Looking for a man or other trans guy to share my life or bed with. Guys, please note - I am not a feminine man - I'm bald, tattooed, muscular, have some bodily hair. I still have some women's parts down there to play with (clit - for example) but you can't count for a bonus hole. If you're into girly girls I am definitely not a per for you. I am into different kinks but it doesn't mean I want to practice them all the time. I would say I like vanilla (regular) sex better and the kinks are for me only to spice up the sex life.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The middle of a park, A remote wilderness spot

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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