We are each other's soul mates, best friends, very much in love with each other, and.....blah, blah, blah! Seriously, we are all of that but now let's get to why we are here on this site. We love seeing each other enjoy new experiences. This lifestyle is only one aspect of that desire for each other but it is certainly the most erotic. The sexy memories we get from playing with couples keeps us very excited for each other. We prefer a long term relationship with a couple or male we really enjoy in and out of the bedroom. We find it takes time to get comfortable with others and that the best sex is after the 3rd, 4th, 5th,.............or even the nth time. We don't believe in hall passes and don't want to play with couples that do. We like being in the same room but are ok in separate rooms as long as we can enjoy hearing each other and that the doors are open to visit when desirable. We both love lots of oral play accept kissing on the lips which she feels is reserved for two people that love each other. For her sucking dick is just fine, no love, just lust. We both are not into any kind of pain, anal play, or dominant/submissive role playing. On second thought he may like a dominant woman but a dominant male definitely scares her. She likes the feel of a woman and receiving oral but is not interested in going down there herself. He is straight but not homophobic. Her biggest fantasy is to be licked while at the same time be penetrated and he is certainly ok with doing the licking or penetrating. Even better, he would enjoy watching the other couple perform this on her. We will consider select single males but we are even more particular about the men we choose. Both of us worked very hard the past 13 years mostly in China so that we could return to the USA and retire. We have achieved that and are really enjoying life now. We are not rich but we have everything we need. We feel that having the time to experience many new things is worth much more than any possession we could possibly buy. So why are we telling you this? Because of the free time we have we would love to do some traveling with other LS couples. Also we can host sometimes during the day. We still have two agers at home so holidays and summers are off limits. We will be empty nesters in a couple of years then it will really be party time. FYI singles males. When we see a profile that says almost nothing about you and/or has only dick pics we quickly move on to the next profile. All emails from you that don't have a few sentences telling us why you are a good fit for us will be deleted almost instantly.

My Ideal Person A long term married couple with no drama. If we sense you have relationship problems then chances are we will politely decline going any further. Our ideal couple would not be bed hoppers looking to score as many couples and/or singles as possible. We avoid those types because for some odd reason we wish to remain STD free. We like our playmates to be fit but a little extra padding is ok. A great personality and being able to have an intelligent conversation are more important than being good looking, especially to her.

Any single males we consider should be very good looking, very fit, have a good nature, trustworthy, and not be married.

We don't like pushy people, bed-notchers, & smokers. Also we are not interested in single males that think they are God's gift to women, not intelligent enough to type something sensible into their profile, and only post dick photos.

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